“Is it time to leave ships?”
It might start as a fleeting thought easy to brush off and get back to the routine.  Maybe it came after a hard week or couple of cruises, a quiet moment at sea, or a conversation with someone who already made the jump to land life.  But the thing is, that thought doesn’t fully go away.
You might still enjoy ship life. You still have laughs with your team, hit your targets, feel the pride of your role and identity of ship crew. But somewhere in the background, there’s a tug, a curiosity, a wondering: Is there something more? Is it time for something new?
This is the beginning of a quiet shift. You may not realize it yet, but thinking about leaving ships even occasionally usually means something deep inside you is starting to change. It doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful or that you hate ship life. It just means that something isn’t fully aligned anymore.  And it’s okay to explore that. In fact, it’s healthy and you should be.
It’s Not Just a Bad Day...It’s a Sign
Ship life is full of highs and lows. That’s the nature of this world, intense, fast-paced, rewarding, exhausting. It’s normal to have off days. But when the “off days” start showing up more often, when they start making you wonder if you can really keep doing this… that’s when it’s time to pay attention.
Ask yourself:
• What do the hard days really feel like?
• What thoughts go through your head after a tough shift, or a long contract?
• Is it just a bad week, or is something deeper underneath?
Maybe your role feels repetitive or no longer challenges you.
Maybe finances don’t stretch like they used to.
Maybe you're missing important moments with your family or friends.
Maybe you feel like you've grown but your position hasn't.
Maybe you're just tired.
This isn’t about jumping to conclusions.
This is simply about identifying what exactly feels off is it the job, the lifestyle, the cruise line, the lack of freedom, the feeling of being disconnected from life back home?  Once you start naming what’s no longer fulfilling, you start taking back your power.  From there, you can decide - Do I need a change onboard? A change of ship? Or is it time to seriously explore land life?
You’re Not Alone And You Don’t Have to Decide Everything Today
If you’re in the space of not totally sure if you’re ready to leave, but not totally at peace with staying then you’re exactly where you’re meant to be. Â
This in-between place can feel confusing. You might go from feeling totally fine to wanting to quit overnight. One contract feels okay, the next one feels unbearable. You might even feel guilty for wanting something else, especially when others around you seem content.
As here’s the truth
You’re allowed to grow. You’re allowed to question what’s next. You’re allowed to build a future beyond the ship, even if it’s just an idea for now. You don’t need to have all the answers yet. But you do need a space where you can think clearly, feel supported, and begin exploring your next step without pressure, without judgment.
And that's why
We’ve created a free resource to help you figure out whether ship life still works for you…or whether it’s time to start planning for land.
Say good bye to indecision and hello to freedom
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We know where you are right now as we have been there before, so first take a load of and you tell yourself, where I am at and what I am feeling is only because I am in a state of indecision and that's all it is. A moment in time where things have shifted and all is needed is for you to do a little discovery.Â
Introducing the guide: 9 things to help you decide if you should stay or go.
Find out if you are unfulfilled in your role, or need a change in cruise line, or you are ready to leave ship life once and for all. Either way you do not need to make any big changes today, but getting the real answer to what is going on is necessary.Â
The tug of war feeling that you will have been experiencing; 'oh it's not so bad, I should stay' and then next 'i can't wait to leave ships, I am over it'. Sound familiar?  This phase is only happening due to you not knowing what it is you need and want. Yes, it really is as simple as it sounds. Â
This guide with 9 key sections will help you to understand your current situation through thought provoking questions, and reflection moments all designed to get you to the point where you can see what is happening and what you need. Â
You are not alone, there is wonderful support here to help you with which ever decision you make, yet again, the most important part is to get back into the driving seat of your life with clarity and certainty. Â
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Finally, The Resource That Will Give You The Answers You NeedÂ

9 Things To Help You Decide 'Should You Stay Or Should You Go'
"Finally, a way to fully see what is happening with my ship life and work!Â
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Yes, we know it is a tough decision, but once you do get clear and know is ship life still for you (maybe with changes) or the end is near, not only do you begin to feel great again, you also feel in control of your life which means you can be living it regardless of the out come, and that's the best place to be in!
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